Man Practice

Self-regulation style · About 10 minutes · Private

How do you settle?

When something gets to you, what do you actually do? Answer 42 short statements and get a picture of how you steady yourself, and how that changes when the stress gets big.

How it works

Your answers stay on your device

Nothing you enter is sent anywhere. This page works out your results on your own phone or computer, and remembers your answers on this device so you can come back and finish. When you’re done, you can print your results, save them as a PDF, or take them to an AI for a longer conversation.

What this is

A way to notice your own patterns and talk about them. It is not a psychological test or a diagnosis, and there are no good or bad answers. Answer for what you actually do, not what you think you should do.

Part 1 · 22 statements

How I typically respond

Choose one answer for each statement. Think about what you actually do under stress.

1 not at all · 2 a little · 3 sometimes · 4 very much · 5 extremely

Part 2 · 20 statements

How my response changes

Give two answers for each statement: one for mild stress and one for major stress.

Mild: annoyed, unsettled, frustrated or slightly anxious.
Major: deeply hurt, frightened, furious, betrayed, flooded or overwhelmed.

1 not at all · 2 a little · 3 somewhat · 4 very much · 5 extremely

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